The Two Sides of Money

At Waterstone Financial Services, we’ve invested in our own learning to be able to help individuals and families work through the both the technical and personal sides of money, especially when life transitions occur.
Technical and Personal Sides of Money-Waterstone Financial Services

  1. Technical and Personal Sides to Money
    • There is the technical side of taxes, investments, estate planning, retirement, cash flow, risk management, etc.
    • There is the personal side of relationships, emotions, hopes and dreams, self-esteem, sense of well-being, etc.
  2. Both sides are equally important and complex. It’s the personal side, however, that drives money decisions.
  3. Transitions are important points (positive and negative) at which life pivots in a serious way: divorce or death, sale of a business, retirement from a job, family inheritance.
  4. Transitions have four stages.
    1. Anticipation: A change is coming. It creates expectations. The person may change behavior based on those expectations, putting them at risk when the expected doesn’t happen.
    2. Ending: What was has ended.
    3. Passage: This is a time of uncertainty, possibilities, fear, and sometimes even chaos.
    4. New Normal: The results are a different life, varying from smaller changes like a child heading off to college to putting life back together again after the loss of a spouse or partner.
  5. Transitions affect how we think, feel, and act about money in those situations. We may become numb and withdraw; experience serious fatigue; have a short attention span; behave inconsistently.
  6. Transitions create new challenges and struggles: short-term versus long-term thinking; loss of self and status quo; lack of direction; inability to make connections; new choices to be made. These can complicate decision-making.
  7. Traditional financial planning focuses on the technical side, making limited accommodation for the personal part.
  8. We also focus on the personal side to integrate it with the technical decisions to be made. We are trained to help you meet the challenges of all four transition stages. We have the tools and expertise to help keep you in control and productive through the changes.

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